Having a child go away for college can be an emotional and challenging experience for both parents and the child. It has been almost 6 weeks since the last time my eldest and I were together. After helping her settle in at the university dorm and get everything else in order, I “let her go” to embark on her college journey.
Its going to be the farthest (~13,453 km) and longest we’ll be away from each other. I’m just glad I was able to help out with her transition by being able to work remotely (in varying time zones) with the support of Budi and Mahesh (a huge THANKS to you both!).
Here are some ideas I think can help make this kind of transition easier:
Talk to your child: Have an open and honest conversation with your child about the upcoming changes. Encourage them to express any concerns or fears they may have and address them together.
Plan a visit: Plan a visit to the college campus with your child before they leave for college. This will help them feel more comfortable and familiar with the new environment.
Help them prepare: Assist your child with the practical aspects of going away to college, such as shopping for dorm room supplies, setting up a bank account, and organizing their schedule.
Stay in touch: Establish a plan for regular communication with your child, such as a weekly phone call or video chat. It’s important to respect their newfound independence while still showing your support and interest in their life.
Take care of yourself: Going through this transition can be emotionally challenging for parents as well. Make sure to take care of yourself by staying connected with friends and family, pursuing your own hobbies and interests, and seeking support if needed.
Remember that going away to college is a major milestone for your child and can be an exciting opportunity for personal growth and learning. With proper preparation and support, both you and your child can navigate this transition successfully.